The BBW Dating Black Men Bespeaks of her Confidence

You, the bbw dating black guys in the millennium, have burst upon the dating scene with confidence and an agenda. Your agenda as a big beautiful woman might be to find The One.

You check out the dating sites, and you’re thinking, “Okay, Cupid, where are you?”

Besides searching for your crush online, you often search for him in diverse places such as in church, at work, or at clubs and parties. Sometimes you find him serendipitously, though. He might be sitting next to you on the shuttle. He might stop to help you fix a flat tire.

Although the bbw dating black guys with serious intent might feel frustrated in not finding him, can she blame Cupid? Some feel it’s all his fault. They say that Cupid is bat-blind, that he can’t hit the side of a barn with his arrow.

“Okay, Cupid, show yourself!”

Wait. Not yet. Let’s take a peek at what’s going on in your mind. Some people outline; that is, they write on their vision boards the qualities they want in Mr. Right. Here are some:

  • Tall
  • Dark
  • Handsome (you know, the usual.)
  • Wealthy
  • Homeowner
  • Has a dimple in his chin
  • Wears expensive cologne
  • “Okay, Cupid, show yourself!”
  • Hold on. Not yet.

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Why not add that he should drive a red Lamborghini? Not a yellow one or a green one. Oh no, it must be red! Get the picture of how this is adding up?

With each requirement, your chance of finding him narrows tremendously. And even if you find someone fitting this description, how do you know he’s not as picky? He might have on his wish list a woman with a pet Chihuahua. And your dog is a Corgi.

Get where I’m going with this?

Suppose Cupid, the invisible and inevitable matchmaker, sets you up with a guy and you fall hard for him. But he’s not tall. Suppose he’s not wealthy either. But he’s sane and possesses common sense. Would that be okay?

The missing key to wealth might lie in your ability to be his emotional counterpart and the business partner that he’s been waiting for—skills and abilities at which you excel.

Physical descriptions often take a back seat when two people fall in love. You’re a bbw dating black men in the millennium. He might not have considered a big beautiful woman as his crush, but when he meets you, you turn out to be the woman for which he’d swim to the moon and back.

Okay, Cupid, show yourself!

Not quite yet. Consider focusing on qualities that would make a good partner. Think of some endearing personality traits that would make you look forward to spending a lifetime with him. He’s…

  • Thoughtful
  • A good neighbor
  • Humorous
  • Stable mentally
  • Generous
  • Kindhearted
  • A great conversationalist
  • Healthy
  • Financially savvy

These qualities are more meaningful, don’t you think? When you’re ready, really ready, you just might meet the one of which you’ve been dreaming.

“Someday you’re going to meet someone unlike any other. It might be when you’re fifteen, or it might be when you’re a hundred. But once you find them, nobody’s ever going to compare.” –Pinterest.com

Since you’re a bbw dating black hunks online and offline, you can help Cupid by being ready, by focusing on honorable qualities, by evoking the laws of attraction.

You never know when Cupid is going to draw back that bow. Yes, he might be blind sometime. He’s shot arrows in your direction before, and missed.

He may have even struck you, but not your love interest. This means you were in love with someone who wasn’t in love with you. The converse may have also been true.

But I’m confident that one day Cupid will strike you both with arrows of love. Although blind, he’ll get it right if only by happenstance. As a bbw dating black guys with love on your mind, it can happen at any time.

Get ready. Stay ready. Stay confident.

Okay, Cupid, show yourself!!!

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