Your casual adult dating experiences will probably take you along the hilltops as well as down into the valleys. In other words, some of your experiences will be joyous, some will not. In the valleys there are various sorrows, among them, heartbreak.
Chris Brown, Justin Bieber, Pat Benatar, and the legend himself, Elvis Presley, sing about the pain of heartbreak. Heartbreak is so agonizing because your emotions have been entrusted to another. And you may not have noticed that the “rug of trust” has just been pulled out from under you.
This sudden implosion of your world can leave you disoriented, angry, revengeful, and tearful. At some point, the ragged, unwanted cloak of loneliness will settle over you, leaving you to feel lost and wandering.
These substances cause you to experience a distorted reality. Misperceptions can escalate hurt feelings, making the situation worse. When you recover from ingesting these substances, you’ll feel no better, and the problem will still be there.
Don’t rush into another casual adult dating relationship. Try to figure out what went wrong with this one. If you dash into another relationship, you’ll likely take hurt feelings and disorganization (baggage) into this one. Another person should not have to pay the price for your heartbreak.
When you’re able to think and talk calmly, ask him what went wrong, why he decided to end it with you. Listen without becoming argumentative.
Let the Healing Process Begin...
A breakup is something that most people experience. This world is a school and suffering is part of it. Grow wise from your casual adult dating experiences.
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