Steps to Match Dating Singles with Their Soul Mates… Keeping It Fun; Keeping It Simple  

Here we match dating singles with lasting loves. It starts with a mindset and a vision board. These are fun and simple steps that end in amazing results—that dream date.

Mindset: Know that in order to find that special someone with whom you harmonize, and with whom you’ll always want to exist in your world, you must realize that he (or she) does actually exist. You probably believe that he exists because that’s why you’re searching for him.

Do you wonder why he hasn’t appeared before now or why it’s so hard to find him? It’s because the time wasn’t right. It’s because the groundwork needs to be laid first. In order to match dating singles, we will start with some mindset-readying tips.

  • ·      Don’t be too anxious about encountering him. Haven’t you heard that good things come to those who wait and that everything comes in its own time?
  • ·      The person who you’re looking for is looking for you.
  • ·      Open your heart and let the “loveshine” in.
  • ·      Get rid of preconceived notions that there aren’t enough good men out there. You don’t need but one. Right?
  • ·      Realize that you’re not too skinny or too fat or too tall or too short. Don’t pick yourself apart like pulled pork and make yourself feel unworthy.
  • ·      Tell yourself daily how healthy you are and how gracious you are for all the wonderful things in your life, big and small. And how blessed you are for family and friends. Even if these things aren’t evident in your life now, still say them continuously and they will eventually manifest. “Call those things that be not as though they were.” ~ Romans 4:17
  • ·      See beauty in every detail. And appreciate that beauty. Yep, this means stopping to smell the stars.

Before We Match Dating Singles With Their Soul Mates, Here’s the Second Part to the Equation.

Vision board: Raise your hand if you don’t know what a vision board is. Hmm, no hands. Not surprising. Many of you might already use vision boards.

For those of you who’ve just landed from the cosmos and don’t know what a vision board is, it’s a physical object—often a board, hence the name vision board--used to focus on particular goals and desires that you want to see manifested in your life.

It’s the vision that you see in your mind.

As we match dating singles here, you may find the board an indispensable tool.

Draw images and/or post cutouts of pictures from magazines on your board. If you're an artist, you can paint your dreams. 

The term vision board can be used loosely to mean any kind of board. It could even mean the back of a closet door. But keep your board away from prying eyes. This is something private that needs to be incubated with care.

If you want to attract love, your board may contain a silhouette of your love interest that includes his or her body type. (Do not put too much energy into this. The ideal person for you may look totally different. The Universe knows best.) 

Have your crush holding flowers. You can cut the image from a magazine. Put yourself in the picture using an actual photograph of yourself. 

Do you love candles? Have pictures of them there. However you describe romance, set the scene. This is your board, your creation, and your future love life. 

Your vision board will probably not be static. It may be a work in progress. When you find a picture of one that you like better than the first, replace it.

When you focus your mind on your vision board and believe the power of your Mind to bring your desires to fruition, your vision board will become vibrant. It will pass from static lifeless images to a living, breathing entity that will in due time present you with your desire. 

Remember, your vision board does not have to actually be a board. It can be whatever you like it to be. It can be a flat surface like a wall. It can be elaborate or simple.

To continue to match dating singles with their love interests, here are some love thoughts for the board.

“Love yourself. It is important to stay positive because beauty comes from the inside out.”

~ Jenn Proske

“Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage.”

~ Lao Tzu

“Let us always meet each other with smile, for the smile is the beginning of love.”

 ~ Mother Teresa

“Love isn't something you find. Love is something that finds you.”

~ Loretta Young

With both parts of the equation in place, we have the tools to match dating singles with their soul mates. Having these two parts in place will cause a powerful reaction that will act as a love magnet.

Starting with this mindset, and before you embark on casual dating, open your heart to these meaningful tips. Review them often.

Realize that before you lies your board, awaiting your awesome vision.

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